Refreshing Your Enthusiasm for Advising
1/31/08 at 3:18:33 PM
--Becky Mooney, Academic Adviser
Department of Psychology
As we move from the bustle at the start of the new semester,
we begin to settle into the stability of the long semester ahead. We finally have time for reflecting upon our
work and our communication with students.
There are times when we all begin to feel frustrated or bored with the
redundancy of the information we disseminate to our students. Consider using creative strategies to feel
refreshed and inspired while sharing these important, but repetitive messages. This
is the best time to challenge yourself to find ways to reframe your attitude
towards, or delivery of, these messages.
While the material may feel redundant to us, we must remember that each
student may be hearing this information for the first time. Our attitude towards our message may affect
their future choices. Our charge is to
find ways to share the enthusiasm we once felt when sharing these messages with
students.
Reframing your attitude is sometimes easier said than
done. However, it is important to reconsider
why these messages are important to our students. Each student might be affected in a different
way. It is certainly best to first open
things up and concentrate on having a genuine conversation about a students'
interests. Once established, challenge
yourself to find a creative connection between a students' interests and the message
you are trying to convey.
Another great strategy is to take the time to bring in new
examples that might excite a student. Think
of students who have taken the same road before (e.g., study abroad, research,
internships) and see if you can pull out an example that relates best to the
student you are meeting with.
Consider restructuring your student meetings. Be sure that you feel refreshed in the
delivery, even if the student may not be aware that there is a difference. This may help to simply refresh your own
personal interested in the delivery of the important messages you give.
It is valuable each day to remember: it is not only what you
say, but how you say it that could help change the trajectory of someone’s
life. I challenge each and every one of
you to consider one new strategy and offer a fresh delivery to your next
student.